Wednesday, April 7, 2010

sophie claire gardiner

4 weeks ago our little sophie girl decided to make her big debut. i'm still in shock that 4 entire weeks of life have already gone by with this sweet little angel. here's all of the juicy details of my labor and delivery. if you would like to read, pull up a seat:

monday night/early tuesday morning march 9th:

just like any other uncomfortable and restless night in my third trimester, i woke up at 12:30 a.m. to use the little girls' room and quickly found myself running to the bathroom because to my absolute surprise, my water had just broke. jeff even asked a couple times if i was sure that's what had happened. i think he was in just as much shock as i was. (note to reader: my due date was march 26, still 2 and 1/2 weeks away... but i now firmly believe my original due date, march 15, was right all along.)

from the second my water broke and even long after labor and delivery was over i had "the shakes". (is that what you even call them...?) i was violently shaking as if i was freezing cold - uncontrollably tense muscles, tight fists, teeth chattering, etc. i wish i would have known this was the first sign (other than my water breaking) that i was in labor. i also failed to recognize that i was indeed having contractions every few minutes... but alas, we took our sweet little time getting to the hospital since this was my first and we thought i had an average of 18 hours of labor ahead of me... funny. well i hadn't packed one single thing for the hospital, so we were throwing a suit case together as we were running out the door.

at 2:45 a.m. when we arrived at the hospital, contractions were already pretty painful and coming quickly. at 3:00 a.m. i was dilated to a 4. two hours later i was dilated to a 10. good grief. goodbye 18 hours of labor, where is my epidural?? somewhere in between those two hours i anxiously received my epidural. oh sweet relief. i was so grateful. so. so. grateful. we had to wait for blood work results to get the ok before giving it to me and the pain was so bad at that point that i was more than ready to have it.

the next hour and 1/2 was the best part of my whole labor experience since i couldn't feel my contractions. although i was dilated to a 10 and fully effaced, i had to labor down and wait for the baby to drop before we started pushing.


i had to take this picture of jeff... one of few times that he was freezing and i was not. they keep the birthing rooms fairly cool for women who are in labor.


by 7:45 a.m. she had descended and it was time to push. i pushed for about an hour and 1/2 and my dr. showed up for the last 20 minutes of pushing to deliver the baby. toward the end of the pushing my epidural had started to wear off making it very painful, but definitely neat to feel her coming out of me. i wanted her out so bad and was so exhausted from pushing for so long.


at 9:13 a.m. on tuesday march 9th, little miss sophie claire gardiner was born.

sophie claire

7 lbs 13 oz

20 inches











and at about 9:15 a.m. our families received a picture text message of sophie and no words. i let my crazy husband talk me into waiting to call any family members until after the entire experience. he thought it would be fun to surprise everybody. i still can't believe i let him talk me into that. my parents were extremely surprised and confused when they received that message. i think my mom about died.








finally talking to my mom!













i never got an official take home outfit, so we just brought what we had and it drowned her.





all ready to go home!




two days later our little family of 3 was able to go home.




it has been a whirlwind the last few weeks adjusting to life as a new mommy and it's taken me a while to get back to into the swing of things. i never knew how much i valued my sleep before now. no, but seriously. sleeping for longer than a couple of hours at a time is no longer part of my life, but i'm loving motherhood and every minute with my sweet girl and wouldn't trade any of it.

we've filled up the memory card on my camera i think twice now so i am predicting that posts will be coming more frequently. stay tuned. :)

33 comments:

Amy said...

Oh, I love her! Isn't labor hard? Even if everything goes really well, it's still so hard and so exhausting! I'm so glad that you guys are doing well. I want to hold that little baby :)

Shambray said...

I loved the story! I am so happy everything went well for you guys! You guys make such a cute family! Congrats again!

Josh, Abbie, Tienna and Kiara said...

She's absolutely adorable and I'm so glad for your sake she came "early"! Congrats again!!

The Nate and Sara Project said...

What a tough lil' mommy you are, Hil! Way to go!!! I'm so very happy for you and so glad to hear that things are going well for you. Bring on the pictures! :)

Sean, Siri, Addie and Connor said...

She is so beautiful! Your story is a great story to remember. Congratulations again!

Jesse.Amanda.Maelee said...

Hilary your baby is adorable and you look so awesome!! I'm happy to hear everything went well!! :)

Nat Heaton said...

Hilary I love the whole story! It is too perfect and so is your little Sophie! YOU look incredible by the way! Can't wait to see more pictures. She is beautiful!

Calli said...

That is so exciting!! It makes me jealous but not!(its such and amazing time.. but also so hard!) :) that is just such a special time... something you won't forget!! she is beautiful!! and you look amazing already!! congrats!!

Kami @ Sweet Charli... said...

Wow! Congrats! She is adorable! And you look awesome!! Can't believe she's a month already! Hope you're doing well!

Amber Jensen said...

Congratulations! I am so happy for you! I still look back at my first birth experience with fondness. Becoming a parent is such a strange but great experience. She is adorable!

amy g said...

congrats!!! she's adorable! Hil, you look great after having her! Those warm hospital blankets are like gold I swear! I always spoil my patients and give them like 5. Can't wait to see some more pictures of your little one!

kalie said...

I love the picture of her yawning! So tender. And you all are a beautiful family!

Lauren said...

Congrats! She is beautiful!!!

Brett and Rachel said...

Wow! I can't believe that was already a month ago!
BTW Hil, you are my inspiration (and I'm sure EVERYONES) to look that good after just giving birth. AMAZING!

Evan and Amber said...

Yeah! I'm so excited to see pictures of the new little baby. so precious

Ben and Camille said...

so happy for an update! makes me REALLY excited for when our girl comes! yikes!! glad everything went well. i can't believe it's already been 4 weeks! wow! 1 month old! let's see more pics for SURE!! :) love that you're loving mommy-hood. can't wait.

Paige said...

So fun to hear all the details! I've been wondering how you're doing. So happy that everything went well and you're loving being a mom. I bet it's hard but I hear it's worth it. :) You look amazing and Sophie is adorable! I love her name. Kind of funny...she was born the day my grandma turned 80 and my gma always wanted me to name a girl Claire because it's a family name. Maybe you should have been my sister. :) Congrats again! So happy for you!

Melissa Rees said...

Our kids share the same birthday!! I had my little guy on March 9th too! Congrats to you guys. She is adorable!

Thunderbay said...

Congratulations she is so beautiful and I am so happy for you. She is gorgeous...

Chelsie said...

ah i can't believe she is already 4 weeks old! she is gorgeous and you look great. i love the birthing story...blessed epidurals right...so nice!

Laurel said...

Congrats! You look so good in that last picture! She is beautiful and I love her name.

Laurel said...

Congrats! You look so good in that last picture! She is beautiful and I love her name.

Steph and Brady said...

She is so adorable! I am so happy for you. It really is such a huge change in life isn't it!? That is crazy that she came early but I am glad everything went well! She is so cute! I can't wait to see more pictures.

Anonymous said...

The whole time I was reading your post I was thinking that your mom died when she finally heard from you & found out you had your baby already. I bet that was hard not to have her there, but a really neat experience for you. I can't believe your baby was so big your so tiny... Autumn was 3 wks early and around the same weight. Must got Jeff height. Well congrats we are so happy for you!!

Anne said...

Oh she is so cute! I forgot about "the shakes"! I had them after labor for a couple hours but I'd totally forgotten until you wrote that! You look so happy, you and Jeff will be ridiculously amazing parents! I'm coming to AZ in 12 days, if you're up for visitors I would love to come see little Sophie!!

Maria said...

I'm so happy for you! Congratulations! She is beautiful!

Criscell said...

I'm so happy for you Hilary! She is just adorable and I'm glad things went well. CONGRATS!

dani said...

i LOVE her name! she is so beautiful!

Rachel said...

yay for a sophie post!! she is so cute! loved the story, since I am not a mommy it is always interesting to here the labor stories. I am sure you are the best mom! can't wait to see more pictures!!

Frei Family said...

Yay!! I am so excited for you!! She is adorable!! Hopefully you are starting to get some sleep! Congrats!!

FRYER FAM said...

she is so pefect Hil. so glad to hear the story of how Sophie made it here.

Anonymous said...

Congratulations! She is so perfect. I am so happy for you guys. What a story! I had the freezing shakes really bad too. It was aweful! I'm glad you made it through.

Morgan, Lindsay, Max and London said...

She is GORGEOUS! Congratulations! And you are looking amazing, too:) Mommyhood fits you well!